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Physical touch/intimacy should correspond with commitment. This doesn’t mean anything goes if you are engaged. What is your motivation -- power and control, gratifying your own ego, meeting a selfish need, or genuine affection? If you feel convicted of certain behaviors, stop doing them. You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be.
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I could've written three novels, started a business, and hiked the Appalachian Trail with all the wasted time and energy.In either case, you have to ask yourself some serious questions: A lot of those answers will depend on the actual age difference.If you’re 60 and she’s 30, it might be a great and fulfilling one-year affair for both of you, but she’s going to think twice about staying with a man who will be 80 when their kids are entering college. In fact, I'd been going about being single all wrong. When I started seeing my husband, aka the first guy I wasn't embarrassed to tell my therapist about, I was gobsmacked to realize how much I hadn't known about dating before then.It's too late for me, but maybe you can learn from what I wish I knew when I was single.
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